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“Hindi mo ako nakita nung nakakakita ka pa. Pero nakita mo ako nung hindi ka na nakakakita.”

Ito yung isa sa mga linya sa “Kita Kita” na di ko makakalimutan. Bakit? Bakit nga ba nakikita lang natin ang isang tao at halaga ng isang tao kapag wala na ito. Napapansin lang natin ang isang tao kapag di na natin sya nakikita, doon natin narerealize na “Ay mahalaga to sa akin” o di kaya “Bakit ngayon lang ‘to dumating?” pero ang hindi natin alam, matagal na siya/sila na nandyan para sa atin, bulag lang tayo sa iba o sa ibang bagay kaya hindi natin sila nakikita. Parang sa relasyon lang din yan, (wala po akong hugot, base lang po ito sa mga nakikita ko haha), kapag kayo pa, kapag nandyan pa yung boyfriend/girlfriend mo, madalas mo syang nababalewa, madalas mo siyang naiseset aside, kadalasan, nasa pinakahuli siya ng priorities mo. Pero kapag dumating yung araw na naghiwalay kayo, kapag nagsawa na siya sa'yo, doon mo marerealize na sana pala hindi mo siya binalewala, doon mo marerealize kung gaano mo siya kamahal at kung gaano siya kaimportante sa'yo.

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❝ No relationship is perfect. As much as you would want it to be perfect, it will never be perfect. It’s always good before it gets bad, it’s always easy before it gets hard, and it always feels perfect before it gets real. You’ll always see the best in each other before you bring out the worst of each other. As the connection gets deeper and the attachment gets stronger, that’s when you’re gonna see just exactly how vulnerable you’ve made yourself to each other. That’s when the flaws and faults start to show themselves. That’s when the problems and differences start to settle in. This is where most people give up because now everything is too complicated or too difficult and that’s when they try to find someone better, but the thing is even with someone better, it’s never going to be perfect. It’s not about being with someone better or having that perfect relationship, it’s about knowing the value of what you have right in front of you and making it work despite the challenges it may bring. Sure, it feels amazing when you two get along and it feels miserable when you two argue, but the beauty in that is being able to always find your way back to each other when you’re on the verge of losing one another because that goes to show that it’s something worth fighting for and it’s meant to be saved. So there might not such a thing as a perfect relationship, but a beautiful one? Yeah, those do exist because what’s beautiful isn’t always perfect, and it’s something we all deserve. ❞
—Truth Slap
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